Generations supported by Sobell House

“Working as a nurse at Sobell House brought both challenge and meaning. What motivated me was the hope that even small things could make a difference. Alongside sadness, there were moments of deep humanity and connection. Personal choice became central to care – introducing an in-house kitchen allowed patients to eat what they wanted, when they wanted, and pets brought comfort and familiarity. I became increasingly aware of the lack of support for children. While adult bereavement services existed, children’s needs were often overlooked, with many not understanding why they were visiting or sometimes unable to visit at all. It became clear this was a gap we needed to address. This led to the creation of SeeSaw – an Oxfordshire based charity supporting bereaved children and young people – now over 25 years old.

Over time, attitudes to death and dying have changed. Hospices were once viewed negatively, but this has shifted. Today, Sobell House is a much-loved local charity, with influence across hospitals and community care. Families now speak of generations being supported, and that is something to be proud of. Looking back, it is remarkable how much has changed through determination and community support. It has been a privilege to be part of that journey.” – Ann

“I became involved with Sobell House in 2000 while working as a GP. Before becoming Chairman of the Trustees, I volunteered on the ward to better understand daily life. I spent time with patients, offering small comforts like newspapers, conversation, or a drink from the much-loved drinks trolley. Volunteering was deeply rewarding, and the warmth of staff and patients made it a special place.” – Bill