I was inspired to become a bereavement support worker after working as a nurse at Sobell House for three years and discovering I was passionate about providing emotional support to families and relatives. I started volunteering in March 2024 and it has been the most invaluable and fulfilling experience for me. Grief and bereavement is one of the most difficult things someone has to go through in their life, and being that person to support them is so rewarding. Sometimes, people just want someone to listen to them, to know someone is there alongside them on their journey, and to hear that whatever they are feeling is OK.

The training to be a bereavement support worker was excellent. You learn everything you need to know including the important and useful skills to best support someone who is grieving. I was worried that it would be intense or too overwhelming, but I was wrong; it was such a calm and supportive environment where I could be myself with no added pressure. I really grew as a person and learnt so much about myself.

At the end of a session with a client, when you hear those words “thank you for being there to talk to, you are amazing”, it really makes me feel I am making a difference. All clients are so thankful for your time.

While working full-time and also studying, believe it or not, volunteering has never been easier. You can easily fit sessions around your own schedule. The bereavement and voluntary services team are so brilliant and supportive. They are always there for you on the other end of the line, or if you ever need time out – self-care is the priority!

Volunteering for Sobell House has been an enriching experience for me. I have taken away so many skills and life lessons which I can transfer to other or later parts of my life. I am grateful to have had this experience and it’s an honour to be able to support clients who may be struggling during the hardest phase in their life.

If you are compassionate, a good listener, and have the time to give, please check out our Bereavement Support Worker role and consider applying. It’s a fulfilling voluntary role, and you will receive all of the training and support you need to flourish.