Patient and family stories

As told by Dave’s son, Pete.

Our Dad, Dave Ashman, had a wonderful sense of humour. Very sharp and witty, he made everyone feel comfortable in his presence. He was a devoted husband and family man. His hobbies included fishing (although most of the time he paid to watch the scenery!), music, reading and football. Manchester United and Oxford United F.C. were his teams. A larger-than-life character who would find a laugh in anything.

As told by Dave’s wife, Amanda.

I had a lovely family life with my husband Dave. We would go on family holidays with my children, Zoe, Jade, Liam and Callum, to Dave’s favourite place, Weymouth. He loved to walk along Chesil Beach.

As told by Muriel’s daughter, Rosemary.

It was the middle of the night and Mum needed to be in Sobell House. There wasn’t an available ambulance, but one came from another county, thanks to Sobell ringing around to find one.

As told by Christopher’s wife, Jeanne.

My late husband Christopher was a man of many talents. He belonged to various choirs, and although I was not a singer, I was a musician. I played the piano and often accompanied him as he sang. Music was his second life, and his love for it was infectious. It was a beautiful partnership, one that brought us countless joyful memories.

As told by Tracey.

I first heard of a ‘celebration of life’ a few years ago – a living wake held by the person who is dying so they can see their family and friends and celebrate life together. After being told my cancer was terminal, I knew I wanted to hold my very own celebration and I planned a big garden party with pop-up food tents, music, and an ice cream bike.

Shared by Sandra’s husband, John.

My wife Sandra was full of life; fit as a fiddle, strong, a keen cyclist and a regular at the gym. In September 2016, myself and Sandra – along with two close friends – took on an unforgettable challenge: cycling from London to Paris. It was a real adventure! A special experience and the kind you never forget.

But just six months later, everything changed.